Kay Silver and boyfriend Dean Thomas look like the average young couple happily in love but there is much more to it than meets the eye. Kay is actually almost twenty years older than Dean. Cougar Kay spent £5,000 on a face-lift which shed two decades off her appearance and helped her to bag herself a toyboy lover.
Kay insists “Age has never been an issue for us; if you’d told me three years ago that I’d end up living with a handsome toyboy, I wouldn’t have believed it. I had the face-lift to boost my career as a belly dancer but it ended up changing everything. I’ve found my confidence again and now walk with my head held high.”
In her younger days she used to be a bunny girl at a private members club where she had to look immaculate with her hair, make-up and be physically fit. Although her physique stayed relatively trim with being introduced to belly dancing which she had then taught for some years she became concerned her face was changing. This got her depressed and she began to lose confidence and felt her body didn’t match her face. It had reached a point where she’d look in the mirror and feel so low she had to do something about it.
She decided to research plastic surgery procedures online and it took her just two weeks to find the right surgeon for her face-lift. Two weeks after the ordeal of the operation, Kate’s confidence starting returning. She felt the bruising and swelling was certainly worth it and she couldn’t believe the transformation of her face.
“I’ll never forget one of the first times I went out after the operation and a young lad from a nearby building site wolf-whistled and tried to talk to me,” she recalls. “I felt visible again. Some people might find that annoying, but it made my day.”
With her face transformed, she started buying new make-up, clothes and soon rediscovered her social life again. She tried many new things, including online dating and salsa dancing. At a London speed dating event she met toy boy Dean, and they established they had a lot in common. She found Dean to be more mature than most men her age and although she kept her age hidden at first he assumed she was in her 30’s or early 40’s.
When they decided to go away for a romantic holiday she warily had to fill out a form and scribbled down her date of birth, and was worried the age gap to him could be a problem. Dean was shocked at first that his new love was actually 53 as he had believed she was a similar age to him. The age gap had no effect on their blossoming relationship, as Cougar Kay and her new toy boy lover carried on spending time together, going on more holidays and they soon moved in together.
Kay’s story proves once again that age is just a number when it comes to finding love. There are plenty of cougars that can find themselves a toy boy for a long-term relationship. You don’t always need surgery like Kay and let’s remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you are a cougar looking for someone younger, or maybe you are a toyboy looking for a mature woman, you should sign up to the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.