Here are a few examples of what some of women have recently written in their online diaries.

I love reading some of these diary entires and seeing that guys have exactly the same problems as us gals – its good to see it from your perspective.

To all those who sent me a ‘happy birthday’ message a big thank you! It shows there are some lovely kind young men out there and you have made my day a very happy one.

Thank you so much for your support and good advice, some really nice people out there. Really appreciate it and best of luck xx

Wednesday morning on a grey and dull morning. Can’nt beleive it that a day ago, I was sunbathing in the lovely sunshine in Belamadina, even got sunburnt.

So you ‘bump’ into your ex-husband on a dating site. Should you: (a) block him (b) wink or (c) report him for breaching the trades descriptions act?

Met a great man on here called Mikey and we have really hit it off. This weekend we are going to…

Pet Hates (in progress and no particular order) * People who obsessively use their mobile…

Just been asked for my email address by a scammer so I gave him the email address of a previous scammer, ha! would love to see how that conversation goes.

Feeling somewhat lonely today. Still waiting for the big strong arms or better still prince charming lol.

A blonde finds herself in serious trouble. Her business has gone bust and she’s in dire financial straits. She’s so desperate that she decides to…

A cabbie picks up a nun. She gets into the cab, and the cab driver won’t stop staring at her. She asks him why is he staring and he replies, “I..

would someone please keep reminding me that at 50 years of age, 8 mile walks are not as easy to recover from, as they were 10 years ago.. stiff.

My next assignment is to compare and contrast comedy in Antony and cleopatra and hamlet. Standard English lit essay. So budding English lit guys..

 
These are just samples of genuine diary entries written by genuine women; and with so many cougars looking for younger men at the Toy Boys Dating web site, the online diaries give you an insight into what these women are thinking.

Cougar Janet

“Hi im a single professional lady looking for a nice friendly funny and outgoing partner who likes all the things I do! ….just like all the other ladies you have probably met in the past.”

“I am up for a laugh and will try anything once……..legal of course .!”

“i like to meet new people, walking, Sking and socialising”

“If you have a great personality and willing to take a chance on chatting to me then get in touch”

If you would like to find out some more about blue eyed Janet and see her other pictures and maybe send this cougar a message, just click on the picture of her enjoying a day at the races.

If you want to see more cougars, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

While I am going to talk once again about the British cougar Caroline Flack, I promise you this will be worth the read. I wasn’t going to reveal this to you all, but I just couldn’t pass up the opportunity to hopefully raise a smile from you!

It would seem that Flack has been in the media once again for being the ultimate British cradle-snatcher, however this time it could prove to be a money maker! The TV presenter has reportedly been offered £50,000 to be the face of a Cougar Dating site, although it is most likely it was a publicity stunt on behalf of the dating site, rather than a serious offer.

To be honest, we all know that this woman has pretty much been the butt of many jokes over the past few months, and of course the poor mare must be tired of it all. But, come on, its £50,000! Personally, I would probably sell my grandmother for less than that. However, a spokesperson for Flack referred to the offer as laughable. Laughable is not the word I would use, as after all everyone has their price.

Come on Caroline, let’s not be rash now. Why not make a buck or two from the disastrous affair? Though, on the other hand she must be pretty fed up with it all, especially after sources say Flack received death threats from One Direction fans. Yeah, I can just see that now, a spotty, prepubescent thirteen year old attacking Flack with two scented gel pens and her school fountain pen. These adolescents can be pretty frightening!

If I was Caroline, I would take the money. Wouldn’t you?

Menatime, if you are a young man (over 18) and are looking to find yourself a cougar like Caroline Flack, you should sign up at the Toy Boy Dating site.

J Lo and her Toyboy

Cougar J Lo, 42, donned a glittery gold frock with silver stars for their swanky intimate dinner in Beverly Hills, California.

J Lo’s toyboy, backing dancer Casper, 24, went for a casual look, wearing an oversized jacket over a black T shirt and trousers.

The couple, who started dating after J-Lo’s marriage to Marc Anthony collapsed last year, are now embracing the limelight after they initially kept their romance secret.

Lopez’s manager Benny Medina has opened up about the cougar actress’ relationship with toyboy Casper saying “She’s not oblivious to her own reality right now, as in: ‘Damn, I’m 42 with a 24 year old!”

He continues “We talked about it and she was just like, ‘It’s not even the age, Benny. ‘It’s actually that I just came out of a relationship where I felt like I was kind of not getting what I needed. And I’m open! ‘So somebody who steps in right now and is actually touching me in a way – it’s very fertile ground!’”

However, Benny is not keen on the affair and he admits that he is concerned of her relationship with Casper, stating that the star falls for the “obsessive” advances of men too easily. Speaking to Vogue, he explained: “The thing that I always sort of wished is that she would give herself time to just naturally meet someone, instead of having obsessive guys pursue her”

“The ease with which that obsession becomes a relationship I think sometimes works against her ability to have a real meaningful relationship. And she never half does anything. When she commits to anything in her work, her life, or her relationships, she is in it.”

J Lo and her toyboy lover are of course happy and we wish them both well.

Meantime, if you are female and want to meet a toyboy, that’s easy – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

If you are male and looking for a cougar the same applies!

Cougar Karen

Karen lives up in Yorkshire and here’s some of what she has to say….

“I am a bright bubbly fun loving woman, always up for a giggle and a good time!”

“I am tall, blonde, slim and energetic! I work at a care home in Sheffield with residents that suffer from age related conditions.”

“I need a fun outgoing kind man with no baggage who can make me laugh with plenty of hugs and who knows how to treat a lady! ”

If you would like to find out some more about Karen and see her other pictures and maybe send her a message, just click on her picture.

If you want to see more cougars, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

I have always been attracted to older women, and about six months ago, made a conscious decision to go surfing for cougars. I got onto the Web and starting searching for sites aimed at women a fair bit older than me who were looking for younger guys.

I found a number of websites, but the one that took my eye was called ToyBoys Dating – something quite appealed to me about the idea of being someone’s toyboy

I took the plunge and signed up for 3 months at first to see how it went. I completed my profile and uploaded four photographs – one of my face, two of me in my casual going out clothes, and one of me on a beach from a couple of years ago showing off my tan! I have to admit I then chickened out from sending messages for fear of rejection.

I needn’t have worried as within the first week I had sixteen emails sent to me from some very attractive females aged between 40 and 55 – the cougars – just what I had been looking for.

I was stunned by the response, and stunned even more by the content of the emails. Some of the emails were flirtatious some suggestive and some left very little to the imagination – these cougars knew what they wanted and weren’t afraid to let me know.

Courteney Cox Lookalike

One of the emails I received was from a 48 year old in Surrey who in her profile described her ideal date as “a bite to eat, a couple of glasses of wine, some good conversation, followed by some mind blowing sex.”

Her profile didn’t have a photo, but that is not too unusual – about a third don’t – most married women prefer to remain anonymous. In my second email to her, I asked her for a photo. She said she didn’t want to do that for fear of being recognised by her husband or her friends, but she described herself as a Courteney Cox lookalike.

Naturally, that piqued my interest.  After a few more emails back and forth, we arranged to meet up in one of those gastro pubs out in the country for a drink. I was naturally nervous but very curious to see if she looked anything like Courtney Cox.

On the night, I spotted her instantly. She looked so much like Courteney Cox I kept having flashes of the TV show Cougar Town. She was wearing knee high boots, and a black leather skirt just above the knees – it sounds tacky, but my goodness she could pull it off.

We chatted away and it transpired she was a stay at home housewife who had got into a rut with her husband who was always busy in his work and didn’t give her what she needed in the bedroom.

After a couple of drinks we loosened up some more and it was obvious there was some chemistry between us and that we were both attracted to one another.

She suggested – yes it was her suggestion – that we should go somewhere more comfortable, and she agreed to come back to mine readily.  Luckily my place was tidy for once! I had some time in my car to think of a strategy on how to woo her when we got back to mine. I needn’t have bothered because as soon as we got in the door, she spun me around and kissed me full on.  We kissed passionately and I could feel her nipples hardening and I knew this was going to get even better. It wasn’t long before we were on the sofa, and she was peeling off her skirt to reveal that she was wearing stockings and suspenders.

The sex was everything I hoped it would be – she was like a dog on heat and as we lay in bed afterwards I had a big smile on my face. I couldn’t believe my luck – lying next to me was a gorgeous experienced woman who had just given me the benefit of her experience.

Later on, I updated my status on the web site to say that I had found what I was looking for, yet several women emailed me wishing me well, which was nice of them.

I have seen my Courtney Cox look alike another three times in the last four months,  so nothing heavy, nothing clingy, just good times – we both know what the other wants – we had after all signed up to a cougar dating site and we are both consenting adults.

However, I continue to exchange emails with five women on an occasional basis – I need a backup in case my Courtney Cox lookalike ever gets bored of me!

Thanks Sam. If you have a similar story – we would love to hear from you – please contact us.

Where to find cougars indeed. You will not find them posting personal ads in your local paper that’s for sure. A mature woman looking for a younger man will go under the radar and search for a younger man in a very subtle manner.

So if you fancy more mature ladies and you know that they are hard to find, how are you supposed to find them? Well the answer proves to be very simple. You just need to know how a typical cougar will go about finding a younger man.

The cougar will join a specific dating site that specialises only in hooking up cougars with toyboys such as Toy Boys Dating.

The beauty of a site like this for a mature woman is that is she can remain relatively anonymous. She will of course make a profile but she will often use photos that do not give away her identity. She may use a photo like the one on the left. The photos that a cougar will upload will give a clue to her identity, but will not reveal all. So although the cougar is being secretive, you know exactly what she wants.

Remember these cougars have various reasons for keeping quiet. Some may be married, but most will simply be embarrassed at having a crush on younger men. Rest assured that they do know that guys who ask the question where to find cougars will track down a web site that provides a service for younger men and older women to get in touch with one another.

So, for you to find older women looking for toyboys in your area, you need to state on your profile that you are ONLY interested in mature women. Cougars will sniff this out – and they will be encouraged to communicate with you far more than someone who has not put this in their profile.

Secondly, you then need to run a search for women older than yourself, and simply favourite those that take your fancy. Anyone that you favourite will be immediately emailed, so that they can come and look at your profile, and see that you are interested in older ladies, and specifically them. They are then very likely to initiate contact with you.

If you favourite a number of mature ladies, just make sure you have enough time to get to meet each of them.

Hot Cougar Trish

“you only live once so make the most of it…enjoy eating out,cinema and the usual stuff like that!! i love my work and enjoy socialising,easy going personality,enjoy my holidays, dont take myself too seriously.”

“try to get use out of my gym membership..sometimes!! love all sorts of music.”

“im very open minded…im finding quite a lot about myself ..and this is a recent pic of myself…..so if you want to know more then message me !!”

If you would like to find out more about Trish and see her other pictures and maybe send her a message, just click on her picture.

If you want to see more cougars, that’s also easy – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

45 year old Deborah lives in the West Midlands and here’s some of what she has to say….

“Hi I’m on here to meet a man for dates, fun and excitement. nothing heavy just fun!!!!

I am great fun to be with so I’m told! Great sense of humour and hard working. I don’t need a man to support me!!!..”

Deborah is 100% genuine and if you would like to find out more and/or message her, just click on her picture. 45 year old Deborah is a perfect example of a cougar, one of many hot cougars you can find at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

Caroline Flack

Now, there is nothing wrong with trying out a younger model, playing with a toyboy and such, however; the guy has only been legal for a year! In recent events, the press found Harry leaving Xtra Factor presenter Caroline’s house in the morning, even though the couple deny the romance. I mean, what is wrong with that? When I was younger I used to stay over my babysitters house sometimes too.

Seriously though, all in all, I tend to believe that love knows no bounds, I think love doesn’t have a gender, race or religion. You cannot choose who you fall for, you are not supposed to. People find love in the most unlikely of places, but how far can we push it? At what point does it become wrong, and who gets to make that decision?

It would seem in Caroline’s situation that it is the spectators who have made that decision for her, but doesn’t anyone stop and think; maybe it’s none of our business? Maybe, just maybe we should leave them to it; they are after all big enough and ugly enough to make decisions for themselves.

Maybe we should all take a leaf out of Caroline Flack’s book, not by encouraging dating minors, however; we should maybe embrace the opportunity of finding love, and maybe it might not be in the place we thought it would be. We might find love in a different religion or we might fall for someone of the same sex, but at the end of the day, as long as we all have our eyes open and spare judgement, who cares?

The only reason we are all judging Caroline’s position is because she is in the media, what would happen if Prince Harry came out as gay? It would be the same up-roar. That up-roar is what keeps people from being happy, from finding love, from being true to themselves. Should we not just accept people for what they are, irrespective of who they chose to love?

Mind you, if you are a young guy, you can find yourself a wild older lady here at this great toy boys dating site.