We receive plenty of emails from our younger male members who are attracted to older women. One in particular took our eye, so we asked him to tell us his story. So here is Sam’s story about Surfing for Cougars.

I have always been attracted to older women, and about six months ago, made a conscious decision to go surfing for cougars. I got onto the Web and starting searching for sites aimed at women a fair bit older than me who were looking for younger guys.

I found a number of websites, but the one that took my eye was called ToyBoys Dating – something quite appealed to me about the idea of being someone’s toyboy

I took the plunge and signed up for 3 months at first to see how it went. I completed my profile and uploaded four photographs – one of my face, two of me in my casual going out clothes, and one of me on a beach from a couple of years ago showing off my tan! I have to admit I then chickened out from sending messages for fear of rejection.

I needn’t have worried as within the first week I had sixteen emails sent to me from some very attractive females aged between 40 and 55 – the cougars – just what I had been looking for.

I was stunned by the response, and stunned even more by the content of the emails. Some of the emails were flirtatious some suggestive and some left very little to the imagination – these cougars knew what they wanted and weren’t afraid to let me know.

Courteney Cox Lookalike

One of the emails I received was from a 48 year old in Surrey who in her profile described her ideal date as “a bite to eat, a couple of glasses of wine, some good conversation, followed by some mind blowing sex.”

Her profile didn’t have a photo, but that is not too unusual – about a third don’t – most married women prefer to remain anonymous. In my second email to her, I asked her for a photo. She said she didn’t want to do that for fear of being recognised by her husband or her friends, but she described herself as a Courteney Cox lookalike.

Naturally, that piqued my interest.  After a few more emails back and forth, we arranged to meet up in one of those gastro pubs out in the country for a drink. I was naturally nervous but very curious to see if she looked anything like Courtney Cox.

On the night, I spotted her instantly. She looked so much like Courteney Cox I kept having flashes of the TV show Cougar Town. She was wearing knee high boots, and a black leather skirt just above the knees – it sounds tacky, but my goodness she could pull it off.

We chatted away and it transpired she was a stay at home housewife who had got into a rut with her husband who was always busy in his work and didn’t give her what she needed in the bedroom.

After a couple of drinks we loosened up some more and it was obvious there was some chemistry between us and that we were both attracted to one another.

She suggested – yes it was her suggestion – that we should go somewhere more comfortable, and she agreed to come back to mine readily.  Luckily my place was tidy for once! I had some time in my car to think of a strategy on how to woo her when we got back to mine. I needn’t have bothered because as soon as we got in the door, she spun me around and kissed me full on.  We kissed passionately and I could feel her nipples hardening and I knew this was going to get even better. It wasn’t long before we were on the sofa, and she was peeling off her skirt to reveal that she was wearing stockings and suspenders.

The sex was everything I hoped it would be – she was like a dog on heat and as we lay in bed afterwards I had a big smile on my face. I couldn’t believe my luck – lying next to me was a gorgeous experienced woman who had just given me the benefit of her experience.

Later on, I updated my status on the web site to say that I had found what I was looking for, yet several women emailed me wishing me well, which was nice of them.

I have seen my Courtney Cox look alike another three times in the last four months,  so nothing heavy, nothing clingy, just good times – we both know what the other wants – we had after all signed up to a cougar dating site and we are both consenting adults.

However, I continue to exchange emails with five women on an occasional basis – I need a backup in case my Courtney Cox lookalike ever gets bored of me!

Thanks Sam. If you have a similar story – we would love to hear from you – please contact us.