Cougar of the Month – March 2013

Posted on March 28, 2013 by Brett

47 years old Lisa is the Cougar of the Month for March 2013.

This hot cougar scrubs up well

This hot Cougar likes to take care of herself, see what she says..

“I’m a happy, confident, easy going, hardworking woman, who is content with homelife.”

She continues..

“I enjoy socialising with my girlfriends dancing the night away, or a quiet meal in a lovely restaurant, or cuddling up on the sofa with a good film and a nice glass of wine, would you like to join me??!”

“I’m looking to date and enjoy ourselves whilst getting to know each other :) ”

Grab this UK cougar’s attention and send her a message; or add her to your favourites, just click on her picture and you will be taken directly to her profile page and you can see for yourself just how fit she is.

If you want to see and meet other sexy hot cougars in the UK, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Cougar Dating site.

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Cougar of the Month – February 2013

Posted on February 14, 2013 by Brett

44 years old Loraine is our Cougar of the Month for February 2013.

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Cougar of the Month Loraine


As you can see she has a great figure and here is just some of what this sexy cougar has to say in her profile.

“I’m a fit 44 year old, fit, fun and full of life still. I have two beautiful girls who are now at an age where they are independent young ladies so I can come and go as I please.”

She continues..

“I love skiing, pretty good at it as I was a chalet girl for a few months in my younger years! I love a glass of champagne but also a large Henricks. Italy and the South of France are my favourite destinations. Lots more to me, just ask! ”

If you would like to find out some more about Loraine, and maybe send this hot cougar a message or a wink, just click on her picture and you will be taken direct to her profile page.

If you want to see and meet other sexy hot cougars in the UK, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Cougar Dating site.

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Cougar of the Month – November 2012

Posted on November 5, 2012 by Luke

52 year old Nina is our Hot Cougar for November 2012. As you can see she has blonde shoulder length hair and here is just some of what this sexy cougar has to say in her profile.

Hot Cougar Nina


“I like to have fun with toyboys. 18-30. Cute, clean shaven, public school boy types.”



Nina tells us she is both pierced and smooth down below and her favourite position is missionary, but don’t think for one minute she is an innocent Christian. In fact she lists her religious beliefs as spiritual.

As you would expect, this hot cougar has some sexy interests including Night clubs, Fetish clubs, S&M clubs, Oral – giving, Mutual Play and Role Playing.

If you would like to find out some more about blonde cougar Nina and maybe send this hot cougar a message, just click on her picture and you will be taken direct to her detailed profile page on our sister site 121247 dot com where you can find out more about her and you can see for yourself why she is such a sexy hot cougar.

If you want to see and meet other sexy cougars in the UK, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

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Definition of Cougar

Posted on August 6, 2012 by Luke

So how exactly has the term cougar come to be used as a term for an older woman who preys on younger men. Here for your delight we present today’s Definition of Cougar.

Let’s look at the definition of the animal first to see if we can get some clues as to the definition of the term cougar, and let’s turn to the Encarta Dictionary for a change rather than Wikipedia.

Cougar In A Tree


Well, the Cougar (Puma concolor), also known as puma, mountain lion, mountain cat, catamount or panther, depending on the region, is a mammal of the family Felidae, native to the Americas. The cougar is most closely related to smaller felines and is closer genetically to the domestic cat than to true lions. Like the smaller felines, the cougar is nocturnal.

A very capable stalk and ambush predator (are you beginning to get the similarities now?), the cougar pursues a wide variety of prey. This cat prefers habitats with dense underbrush and rocky areas for stalking, but it can also live in open areas. The cougar is territorial and generally persists at low population densities. Individual territory sizes depend on terrain, vegetation, and abundance of prey. Attacks on humans by animals remain fairly rare.



Cougar In A Tree


Meantime, let’s see how the Cougar is in a human context to better understand this definition of cougar. Well, in this case cougar is a slang term (often complimentary) referring to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men.

Typically, the term refers to women over 30 years old who pursue men more than seven years younger. The origin of the word is debated, but it is thought to have originated in Western Canada very recently – round about the turn of the millennium. The term has been used in TV series, advertising and film in at least the past ten years. Cougar Club was a film from 2007 dedicated to the subject, and in spring 2009 TV Land aired a reality show called The Cougar. The sitcom Cougar Town originally explored the difficulty and stigma of many so-called cougars.


As part of this cougar definition, it is important to know that there are a number of sub-categories of the cougar:- Cheetah – the cougar who is married. Tiger – the cougar who likes bondage. Puma – the cougar who likes anal (where do they dream this up from). Leopard – the cougar who is on the rag. Panther – the black cougar (figures). Pussycat – the lesbian cougar. Hyena – the cougar who likes drugs. Finally, the Jackal which is the cougar who only gives hand jobs.

Cougars often seem to have a bad name when it comes to relationships with the consensus of opinion being that the cougar exploits vulnerable young men. But as long as the young man is of legal age and the relationship is of mutual consent, then we say where’s the harm. Besides, there’s not a young man on the planet who wouldn’t jump at the chance of sex with an experienced woman of the world.

So if you are a younger man looking for a Puma, a Tiger or a Jackal go to www.toyboysdating.com and be prepared to be exploited!

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Cougar of the Month – July 2012

Posted on July 31, 2012 by Brett

56 year old Jane is our Sexy Cougar for July 2012. She has dark blonde shoulder length hair and here is just some of what this sexy cougar has to say in her profile.

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Sexy Cougar Jane


“I’m interested in lots of other stuff as well – not a sit at home and twiddle my thumbs type but I can appreciate the slow lane once in a while and definitely take time to smell the roses. Writing’s my job (and a pleasure) and reading is a lovely way to chill in my garden with a glass of wine (preferably Chablis – or a good Rioja) when I’m not exploring somewhere new either locally or further afield.”

The sexy cougar continues…. “I do have a gorgeous fella in my life called Dan – he’s a Miniature Dachshund – so if you don’t like dogs perhaps this might not be such a good idea. Look forward to meeting you for a coffee or a nice cup of Earl Grey…. and getting to know a little more about you”


As you would expect, she has many many interests including Pop Music, Classical Music, Jazz Music, Rock Music, Movies, Theatre, Dancing, Animals, Gardening, The Arts, The Outdoors, Restaurants, Reading, TV/Radio, Cooking and Travelling.

If you would like to find out some more about blue eyed Jane and see her other pictures (she has six in total) and maybe send this sexy cougar a message, just click on her picture and you will be taken direct to her profile page where you can find out more about her and why we reckon she is such a sexy cougar.

If you want to see and meet other sexy cougars in the UK, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

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Tips for dating a toyboy

Posted on July 27, 2012 by Brett

Tips for dating a ToyBoy

 

Trying to date a younger man can be tricky, though there is something about the younger male that seems to drive women insane and there are a few aspects to dating a younger man that most older women should remember. Remember ladies that 40 is the new 20 and you have the right to enjoy your life. These tips for dating a toyboy will assist you in finding and keeping your beautiful toy boy.



Number One: Do not go in with high hopes

You have to remember firstly that the younger man is a very different species. They are at a very different point in their lives – they are still ‘finding’ themselves and could still be thriving in the peak of their youth. Their priorities and goals will be very different to you and of men of a similar age as you. So, keep your expectations low, because you could be in competition against back packing around Europe.

Number Two: Find something in common

It’s obvious that with an age difference and being at different stages in your life that your ambitions and priorities are going to be on different ends of the scale. But do not fret – you WILL have something in common, you just have to find it. It’s very healthy to sing from different hymn sheets – in fact some people believe differences attract, but remember that you do need to find some kind of common ground to come back together.

Number Three: Do not expect maturity

You have to keep in mind that while ‘age doesn’t matter’ – age does rear its head! Expect some immaturity; he may find farts hilarious and ask you to pull his finger. Unfortunately there is no way around this issue, you are choosing to date someone younger, less experienced and probably less worldly than you. What you just have to do it take it, enjoy letting your immature side out occasionally – it could keep you young!

Number Four: Keep your mind open

Remember not to judge these men, just because of their age. They may be younger but you could be surprised at how mature they can be. This is all about not expecting too much from someone, and allowing them to have their opinions and not to patronise! Keep your mind open, and then you have more of a chance to have your mind blown!

So, there you go – a few quick tips for dating a toyboy. We think they are simple yet effective tips that will help any cougar find – and keep – a toyboy!

If you fancy toyboys then of course you really should sign up at the Toy Boys Dating Site.

 

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Cougar of the Month – June 2012

Posted on June 29, 2012 by Brett

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Sexy Cougar Lelia


52 year old Lelia is our Cougar of the Month for June 2012. She lives in Northants and here is just some of what this sexy cougar has to say in her profile.

“I am a woman with honest values and high self esteem. I am more spiritual then religious but respect the believes of others regardless of my own views. I enjoy being around positive, happy and confident people. I possess the ability to lead or follow and know either when is most appropriate.”

“I enjoy traveling but am as comfortable curled up on a sofa with a good book and someone special. I enjoy outdoors: walking, beaches as much as indoors, restaurants, concerts, cooking, listening to the music, being surrounded by friends and family. I am family oriented, and a great companionship for all kind of fun. I’m not extreme …bikes, hikes, dancing, skating, kayak or canoe. Join me for a walk in a park, the boardwalk or with sand in our toes?”

She continues…. “Lets explore a new town or go to a great concert together and create a memory. Maybe theres an outdoor fair we can check out? Or we can find a great pub or beach bar where the atmosphere is relaxed where we can drink umbrella drinks, get silly, and enjoy the crowd. Learning things on my own is fun but learning something new together would be much better!”

To give you a feel into her personality and her outlook on life she also says…. “I consider myself to be a little sexy, more playful and very caring. I love to laugh and have fun but know when to be serious and sincere. I am a self-confident person, yet a little shy in new situations. I have a positive outlook on life but also grounded in reality. I am very kind and compassionate yet cannot tolerate cruelty towards man or animals. I know what I like yet I am open-minded and flexible. I love to try new things and see new things but just as happy being beside my special someone doing absolutely nothing. I have high maintenance looks with a down-to-earth attitude, values and personality, I appear younger than my age and definitely act younger than my age.”

As you would imagine, she has many many interests including Music, Movies, Theatre, Dancing, Gardening, The Outdoors, DIY/Crafts, Restaurants, Pubs/Clubs, Reading, TV/Radio, Cooking, Travelling, Keep Fit, Sports and Green Issues.

If you would like to find out some more about blue eyed Lelia and see her other pictures and send this sexy cougar a message, just click on her picture and you will be taken direct to her profile page.

If you want to see and meet other sexy cougars in the UK, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

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Tips for Dating Older Women

Posted on June 28, 2012 by Brett

Several years ago, the main television networks got a hold of the word Cougar and all hell broke loose. Every commercial, 30 minute sitcom and nightly news program made cougar a mainstay of their conversation. Even your grandmother knew what a cougar was, hell, maybe she was/is one? Nevertheless, the world was obsessed with the idea that women could be sexual after 40. I mean, who knew right? I thought vaginas just shut down after 35. But Courtney Cox and ABC proved us all wrong and taught us that vaginas do exist into middle age! However, a few years later, the cougar hype has calmed down. Maybe society finally accepted it or they’ve just moved onto the next money making idea? Whatever the reason may be and despite the lull in cougar mentions this week on twitter, there’s still plenty of men out there who want to get cougared and women who want to cougar them. Obviously, or this site wouldn’t exist.

But just because you find your twenty-something self staring down some 40+ women without a rock across the bar, doesn’t mean she’s going to pounce on you. While women over 35 may be in their sexual prime, they still have standards and need to be treated as such. What you could pull on a 22 year old co-ed, you can’t pull with an established women. So here are some tips on how to be successful with an older woman.

First off, you have to maintain a certain level of maturity. While she’s not looking for you to play shuffle board, she doesn’t want you acting like a frat boy either. You don’t want to remind her of someone that could be her son. Be young, have fun, but don’t act like an immature fool.

Secondly, leave your games at home. Twenty five year old women don’t want to deal with games, 40 year olds don’t have the time or patience to deal with them, so cut the crap and be honest.

You also have to bring your confidence to the table. At this point, she knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it. While you may be lacking the years of experience, you need to be sure of yourself and confident in everything you do.

You need to chase her and make her feel special. Sure this relationship is a little bit different and she might even be running the show, but it’s important that you still go out of your way to make her feel like a lady.

Finally, you’re about to have your world rocked. Whatever you know about sex is probably wrong and she’s about to teach you things you’ve never even heard of. So be down for the ride and open to learning new things. However, you should bring your A game and TRY to teach her something new. Perhaps you can introduce her to a toy she hasn’t used before. If you can manage this, you’ll raise your stock in her eyes. If you’re looking or inspiration, head over to Adam and Eve and see what you can come up with.

At the end of the day, this relationship really isn’t any different than dating a women your age. It comes down to dating like an adult, treating someone with respect and being open minded. If you can keep those in mind, you should be successful no matter what.

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British Women Want A Toy Boy

Posted on June 12, 2012 by Brett

A Third Of British Women 40+ Want To Date A Toy Boy

According to a recent story in The Daily Mail well over a third of British women aged over 40 want to date a toy boy. According to the paper, with celebrities like Demi Moore and Madonna spearheading the trend for relationships with younger men, there has never been a better time to be a cougar – a woman over 40 looking for a fling with a younger man. Just like their A list icons, a third of British women have confessed that they too would love to date a younger man.

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Cougar Looking for a Toy Boy

 
Almost half of the 4,500 women who took part in the survey – 44% – want something steady, safe and secure while 13% are after a new relationship following a break up.

Four out of ten of the British women surveyed confessed they are after romance, lasting love and even marriage with their toy boys demonstrating that is not just a passion fuelled fling that they are after, although that is a welcome bonus!

The survey shows that over 30% of women in their 40s and 50s are keen to date a man who is at least five years younger than them. This compares to just 8% in a similar survey conducted in 2005, showing that the so-called “urban cougar” has moved from marginal to mainstream. So now it is more acceptable for British women to want a toyboy.



Dating expert Dr Victoria Lukats explains “Dating a younger man has now become mainstream and acceptable. Perhaps this is down to the media reporting of celebrity age gap relationships, or more likely it’s due to the growth of internet dating where people realise that if they are more flexible in their search criteria, including age, they will have more potential matches. Internet dating also encourages people to focus on what’s really important in a relationship and for many women, their priority becomes finding a partner with whom they are compatible, irrespective of age.”

The survey also stated that some 18% of guys under 40 said they were actively looking to meet an attractive, older woman, compared to just 5% in the survey five years ago.

This is why dating sites such as the Toy Boys Dating site exist – to satisfy the need for cougars looking for younger men, and younger men looking for cougars. The site is UK only at the moment and it proves that the survey is right – British Women Want A Toy Boy.

Footnote:- Wikipedia lists the definition of a cougar as follows. “Cougar is a slang term referring to a woman who dates younger men. Typically, the term refers to women at least 30 years old who pursue men more than seven years younger.”

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Cougar of the Month – May 2012

Posted on May 31, 2012 by Brett

53 year old Debbie is our Cougar of the Month for May 2012. Fun loving Debbie lives in Hampshire and here is just some of what this UK cougar has to say in her profile.

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UK Cougar


“I am a confident, positive, outgoing person with a good sense of humour. I dont feel my age and luckily do not look it, I am slim and fit I take great pride in my appearance, I am comfortable in my jeans or dressed up.”

“I am happy and grateful to have spent time with many wonderful interesting people through my life so far.
So here I am I am re-styling my life again ……and like the song says – What doesnt kill you, makes you stronger!”

“I love the summer…….I love to sit outside on a sunny day …with a glass of wine ..and great company, looking across the water, or maybe playing tennis, taking a trip out to sea or relaxing on the beach.”


To give you a feel into her personality and her outlook on life she also says “Sharing something with someone special is always better than doing it on your own!”

She has many interests including Music, Movies, Dancing, The Outdoors, DIY/Crafts, Restaurants, Reading, Travelling, Keep Fit and Playing Sport.

If you would like to find out some more about blue eyed self employed Julie and see her other pictures and maybe send this UK cougar a message, just click on the picture of her enjoying her bubbly on a yacht and you will be taken direct to her profile page.

If you want to see and meet other UK cougars, that’s also easy too – you can find many of them at the very popular Toy Boys Dating site.

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